Thursday, 11 October 2012

Spoiled American

I freely admit that I am a spoiled American.  I like comfort. I like convenience. I like my house to be warm when I turn on the heat.  These are not traits of English living.  Let's take a look at some of the things that make me cross.  ;-)

Lack of storage and convenience.  It didn't seem like a big deal at first, but now, it's annoying.
  • I have to leave the kitchen to get a dish.  There just isn't a place for them there. They reside in a sideboard in the dining room (up 3 steps and around the corner.) 
  • Piles of linens on my bedroom floor.  No linen closets.  I ran out of plastic bins and room under the beds for hiding them.
  • Piles of papers and small appliances covering the tiny amount of kitchen counter space I have. Again, the clutter is way worse than it was back home.  How that is possible is beyond me.
  • No medicine closet or storage.  Those things have been placed in a bin and are on the top of a high glass shelf in the master bath.
  • What built in storage there is requires a ladder, in most cases.
  • The master bedroom, looks huge on paper, but try arranging furniture around 2 long radiators and 3 very large windows.  The space dwindles.  I feel like I should have a 4 poster bed in the middle of the room to provide more wall space.  Hmmm....maybe I need to think more about that idea.
  • High ceilings and single paned windows make it awfully drafty.  In the states, I kept my heat on 71 and it pretty much stayed around that temperature.  I know that's warm for some, but I like to be comfortable! Here, I set it to 21C (just under 70F) and I'm lucky if it reaches 20.  It was 19C most of the day yesterday.  It made me a very unhappy woman.
  • There are 2 small boilers in this massive, old home.  The downstairs one can barely keep up and the upstairs one has to be reset every other day.  I woke up at 3am freezing because the dang thing stopped.  I had to reset it and then we were back in business.  (I may or may not be interested in moving next summer to a smaller, newer home.)
  • Climbing nearly 30 stairs to gather laundry from the boys bathroom has already gotten old. I wish we had a laundry chute. lol
  • The curtains fell off the wall yesterday because the person who hung them, did it improperly and a bolt was missing.  REALLY.   Thank goodness no one got slammed on the head with the metal rod.
  • While walking the boys to school is mostly a positive thing, when it rains, it sucks.  There really is no where to park.  We live close enough that we would only get one or 2 streets closer.  Not really worth the effort of getting everyone in the car.
  • Did I mention I am always cold!

Now, these things really get my blood boiling, but it's not really that bad.  These are silly inconveniences that I need to adjust to.  I can say that I appreciate my little home back in the states so much more than I did before leaving it.  I just need to figure out how to let the little stuff go, so I can enjoy the big picture.  There is a lot to be thankful for.
How about a little list of things I am thankful for to end on a high note.
  • We have a lot more family time here.  A short commute for Jason equals more time at home.
  • Access to incredible sights.  I feel as if my heart and mind have been split open by the things I have seen here and the things I know I will see.
  • The ability to walk to the shops, restaurants, parks,etc. if I choose to.
  • The amazing, kind and compassionate people I have met here.
  • Easy access to fresh, local produce and dairy products.
  • The opportunity to have this experience that I am so unworthy of.
There are so many things to be thankful for.  I will try to focus on those and maybe now that I've aired my grievances, I can let them go a bit more, too.

Cheers.

2 comments:

  1. Just to add one more to the list of inconvenient...why are English houses so anti outlet? Of the two houses and three temporary quarters I have lived here in the UK all have lacked adequate plug ins. And Never has there been one in a bathroom or WC...but you are right, let us be more grateful. :)

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    1. YES! Plus, in this house they are mostly at base board level. Major pain. It's against the law to have them in the bathroom here. At least that's what one of the landlord's we spoke to told us.

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